Compound and compound while using medicine to distinguish _'s psychology clearly and explore the secret

Compound and compound while using medicine to distinguish _'s psychology clearly and explore the secret
Men are afraid others know his concern about women, so so show the cold expression. This is bored one side which disturbs the psychology of man.
The friend's wife tells me, her husband is a very amazing man, no matter she say more or less if complaining, he will smiling and the patient one is finished listening to at home, but in the unit, wait for her to become quite a different person.
Especially make a telephone call to the unit, the attitude answered is not cordial at all, "in fact I do not want to hinder his work, but is really in a hurry sometimes, have to phone to discuss with him, I do not know why he wants to use that kind of cold and unhappy attitude, not with usually cordial and gentle tone, I really understand men sometimes. " That wife is complaining like this.
Indeed, when men receive the wife's telephone on the work position, seem to all have a kind of common attitude, that is unwilling to say verbose words, and try hard to reply with the mechanical single character, until eh,etc.,it seems it is dislike by trouble to answer too. But these people get back to home, speak and just answer with the wife eh? Woman lie in to it produces to be communication of emotion couple usually, so they often care about husband's attitude toward her.
In fact, these kind of situation not only takes place on the workplace, for example: That person of you and friend chat in the coffee shop, suddenly you came, sat at his side, at this moment, his attitude may be very indifferent, or he will ignore you on purpose but chat only with his friend, or say coldly: " please go back first! "
Only when two people stay alone, he will show consideration for gently; Once there are others present, he will make the widowed feeling indifferent again at once. Which kind is his true features on earth? Does he love you on earth? No wonder you will have doubt.
In fact, the man often changes one's own attitude because the position is different, generally speaking, the man is in front of public occasion or others, not very willing to say to one's own loved woman affectionately, because they mind others' eyes to him very much.
Don't be angry that men are invited when cold to you in front of others
One regard unmarried woman as target, investigate they ideal man point out in the terms in the mind, " gentle " Rank first high, in fact want men to behave gently, it is really too difficult too. Because the men have not mostly thought it gentle it is the behavior of the male spirit, though gentle men have already had inclination of increase in recent years, but it is a cowardly idea to be gentle, still rooted in the hearts of the people so far, so, take care of the men of the social eyes, how consideration unwilling to display them in front of others is gentle.
This kind of psychology, for some respects, are owned by eastern man only, because in the European high society, will regard gently as the traditional gentleman's due condition. The kiss in front of people, couple attend a banquet etc. at the same time, seem with their social eyes, all some usual things. Though eastern society has been already changing gradually, still unable to be been generally accepted to women's gentle behavior in the public occasion, the apologist who even has the big man's doctrine insists " the man is in the public occasion, must be majestic. "
So unwilling and husband that you walk hand in hand at home, go out to travel, have reached the strange place, may take on the waist and hold hands with you; Docile like the husband of the cat usually, a friend gets to the family, perhaps dictatorship needs like the tyrant. These are in order to maintain his man's dignity, defence instincts done. But must it just be like a man to do it in this way? This point, we leave aside for the moment, you yourself firmly believe at least.
The cleverest method when your man or husband is cold to you in front of others is to dismiss with a laugh, because blaming him will only let him feel and perplex.
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