Degree of the joke How to hold _'s interpersonal psychology

Degree of the joke How to hold _'s interpersonal psychology
Hold a well-meaning, appropriate joke in the office, between the intermittent colleagues of meeting each other, can regulate, the atmosphere of the active serious environment, relieve the tense pressure brought by work, promote the harmony of the emotion between each other. Naturally, anything has every one, then how to control degree of the good joke?



Someone says: The joke is sober pharmaceutical and lubricant in the life, because there are jokes, life becomes interesting and vivid. A joke, is made up of two parts: Person joking and target of the joke. People or some things hold the joke sometimes when can live, should hold sense of propriety and occasion!
Quite right, in the office or meeting intermittence, opened a well-meaning, appropriate joke each other between the colleagues, can regulate, the atmosphere of the active serious environment, relieve the tense pressure brought by work, promote the harmony of the emotion between each other. There is a person liking joking in the collective of a group, just the same as the engine has lubricant, harmonious, smooth, it is happy, happy to work every day, such a person, it was another kind of formal cohesiveness that was brought to the group, he is a funny fellow of the group. Similarly, often become the person of the joke target, it is a funny fellow of the group, more happy source too.
Naturally, anything has every one, it is also like this to joke, the target to the joke of the joke looks of the beginning, awkward, depressed even angry, having influenced the emotion between the colleagues, it is tense to cause to atmosphere of the group and is constrained at the same time, even damage the unity between the members of office, this is that we are unwilling to see, or the person joking is quite unexpected.
It takes to control degree of the good joke and know several main points:
First, target of the joke
Those persons who like joking, good at joking, are good at the person watching the mood and guessing the thoughts too, who can be understood clearly and what thing can be with the joke, to which kind of extent is the joke, affectedly bashful very accurately, such person is very popular.
Second, content of the joke
The same target, different contents, its response is different. Everybody has one's own dignity bottom lines, everything has reflected different dignity intensity, having crossed over the bottom line that others can accept, the result brought is not the original intention that oneself wants absolutely.
Third, purpose of the joke
Having talked about this in the front, the purpose of the joke should be pure, broad and level, did not injure others' self-respect. Don't make fun of physiological defect of the other side at will, does not need the careless opening joke in front of lady either. If the purpose of the joke is impure, may ask for an insult.
Fourth, interdynamic of joke
Those persons who really like joking, good at joking are not afraid others open one's own joke, two-way and interdynamic can form benign cycle, benefit the body and mind.
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