The modern beauty blindlies date and washes the to totally record _'s guide of blindlying date
Visit and blindly date: A stone evokes a thousand layers of waves
The past two years, new view has appeared in Beijing, places such as Zhongshan Park, Zizhuyuan, Longtanhu,etc., have become the place where parents blindly date to have a get-together as the children above the average age for marriage. Immediately this information
Become the material of the media, in the girl friend that holds office of life magazine is little and beautiful sets up horses and calls, invite me to go to experience atmosphere together: "If in order to make a series of reports, the certain popularity is heightened, maybe the magazine can increase some circulation! " She is animated. But I am disapproving: "Still blindly date in e-era? Some old soil subject matter! Make laughs? " "What go there is all the white collar's parents, do not you want to touch the quotations for the treasure daughter? " This words have been pitched to on my soft rib. My daughter has been already 21 years old, there is not a boyfriend so far, normally should reach while looking for the remaining half. I take a stand right away: "Go, go on weekend. "
The afternoon of May 24, 2005, I and coming to the river bank after Zhongshan Park youngly and beautifully. There, have already laid the battle array for the children anxious parents substantially as burning of the marriage wedding, in knots under the shade " Discuss the wedding theory to marry " . A doggerel that parents wrote is being stuck on the bill-board by the tree: "Where has Old Man of the Moon and Old Man of the Moon gone? Can know mortal world people are anxious. Children have not chosen delicately enough in the world until marriage. " At first glance, think this poem is written there are some reasons; Can take a broad view of and see the scene, feel unnatural. Those piece have worried nearly for parents that daughter come, have one mother two pieces of jade of daughter take and formate at the big cardboard meticulously 26 year old even, still indicate with the large size block letter word: University degree, company clerk of individual enterprise. The girl on the photo is delicate and pretty and agreeable, know once looking it is the small white collar.
I wondered very much: "It is not 1.5 to 1 that the population gender is counted, do men have few many women? Why reverse? " It is small and beautiful curls one's lip and says: "That is the countryside. The big city is seriously polluted, apt to give birth to the girl. It is early in the city women have many and few men. You have a look, how steady and sure those guys' parents are. " As expected, the guy's parents are busy the view of galloping along on horseback to " spend " ,Excellent and chosen and excellent; But the girl's parents seek, often rebuffed.
At this moment, an old person is holding a big picture frame, writing above: Male, 30 years old, unmarried; The Party member of the CPC, organ's section chief; Look for women 23- 26 years old, civil servant, teacher or accountant; The person who accords with condition is not disturbed. It is small and beautiful to set people laughing intentionally, go forward to recommend oneself: "Uncle, how about me? " "How big is it? " "27 years old. " "What work? " "Editor. " The old person waves majestically: "Don't disturb! " Step the measure steps saying and turn around and leave.
Helplessly looking at our American editress " The color is lured " Come back after a vain attempt, I nearly want to faint: What happened to on earth this manners and morals of the time? The men's superiority to women of labour market, men are superior to women on even market of marriage? Trouble how often women master one's own affairs!
Little beautiful anger anger one: "The woman will become the poor seller when over 26ing, have no justice! "
The heart is intimate that I can't help, the daughter graduates from university on 23 years old, who can guarantee she can find the happily married couple in two years? It seems, the daughter's great event in one's life must be from deliberating early!
Come back from the park, I make the telephone the old friends of jobs of the Women's Federation. The enthusiasm that this old friend behaves, like to work as a matchmaker, the rookie brought together by her during these years say two last -figure number too few. I try inquiring after: "Unless hey, old for sister,it is it much been man to what you act as matchmaker let during these years or woman much? " "It is that female certainly. Tell you, don't want to let me help after crossing the 24 -year-old girl. I this pigeonhole several piece 25 -year-old, go out. " Listen to so that I am terrified. I am busy asking: "How is old girl easy to sell? " " 22, 23. " No wonder the media reports the slope that the market of marriage becomes younger in turning towards in recent years, and sure enough it do! I ponder, think he who strikes first gains the advantage really not so good as, say at once: "Old sister, I Miss that grow up too, work and trouble you to help for her. How about it? Girl of us how long does it ask you even auntie anyhow. " She is happy: "Do not you object to child's calf love? Let the daughter blindly date too now? OK, I help your place. Please offer the condition out, I am easy to operate. "
Putting down the telephone, I see the sweat with forehead. Well, believe in the intersection of cause and I that it make always, reduce to stage that blindly date for woman too unexpectedly today.
Urge to blindly date: Have pity on the love of parents all over the world
The husband wonders: "How to listen to you conversing like trader in human beings? " Heard from me that should blindly date for the daughter, he was disapproving, " one had woman various schools of thinkers to ask, boys are sending flowers to our daughter last week! According to our daughter's condition, worry that can not marry? " I rebuke to one's face him: "How could ' egg-shaped thing of green cucumber ' want those? It is how my mother say, inmature like weaning that they open one's mouth. Besides, it is so difficult for university students to assign now, if look for ' the egg-shaped thing of green cucumber ', the job fair that two people can strike back when get to graduate, does not this look for trouble? You have market awareness too, boy grow up to be a useful person little in the only-child, look for how all rightly successful providing for a rainy day is! Remembering the daughter's mother of those busy ' promote 's in the park, I feel sad. Let others choose us instead of passing for two years, it would be better we choose others now. " My continuous firing rumbles and has the husband to lose one's head.
Husband and I start writing voluminously and write down the daughter's strong point: "Have obtained the national middle school student's composition match first prize, has studied in the key university, the speciality is the hottest business for the moment; 1.7 meters in height, chosen by an international talent scout's company for the moment big, made eight advertisements "
Then, husband and wife discuss the condition of choosing spouse together. I say: "The guy must have undertaking foundations, have sense of duty. " The husband says: "Oh, be born to the local only son. " I remind one: "The only-children are all pampered and spoiled, can they understand and accommodate with one another? " The husband holds a contrary opinion: "' pampered and spoiled ' is a life style too. " I am persuaded patiently: "There is common life background that has common temperament and interest and language. If look for many children's families of other places, then, young couple's incomes must all do contribution for the anti-poverty project. The day economizing on food and clothing, can the daughter stand? " Actually, blindly date ahead of time, want, give daughter look for one can give her hide the intersection of windscreen and hand of rain just, how to walk the condition is too bad! To my argument, the husband thought deeply right.
The old friend fulfills the mission, the good news come if fewer than one month: "' the luck in love affairs ' of deserving the daughter of your family and leaving. " Then quote the guy's condition as if enumerating one's family valuables: 1.85 meters in height, the cadre sons and younger brothers; Only 24, famous at home
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