Realistic and fictitious Emotion and carnal desire

Realistic and fictitious Emotion and carnal desire
About the investigation motive now of the love of one night of the network, " love of one night " It has already no longer been a topic letting people become interested. In this society that demonstrates the postmodern characteristic day by day, like " love of one night " The behavior of overstepping the limit of such emotion, people's attitude has been already ambiguous and a bit indifferent, it seems that it is only a naughty child next door, to he (she) Wrong,no need let's go investigate. But people find now, " love of one night " under the participation of the network And high frequency take place at faster speed. According to domestic investigation of network company, there is experience with love online of the netizens of nearly 40%, " love of one night " among them Proportion account for half about. It is said to also solicit on the net " The love of one night " Advertising,persons who answer from more. " love of one night of the network " It it seemses that influenza virus, spreads everywhere along the keyboard, screen and telephone wire. Pass online chat, OICQ, E-mail Love online, " the intersection of network and love of one night ' " the online marriage, love while being getting fictitious " ,The things of the modish of different class jump between realistic and invention, mixed with emotion and carnal desire, beautiful and repulsive These " love of one night of the network " What kind of a kind of person are the men and women of the story protagonist on earth? With what kind of a kind of psychology on earth did they participate? A drunkard of embodiment and story between the dream dance take place a little accidentally. He was really boring that day, looked for one with woman net friend in Jiangsu at will, it is very direct to exchange: "May I become your boyfriend? " It is all right for the other side to answer. Because network authenticity could make people to be so wanton, drunkard wrap up, divert oneself from loneliness or boredom " hollow and lonely " Attitude,to if you can't invite by the other side, want Nanjing. The next day, that girl really got to Nanjing from Yangzhou. The drunkard is getting nervous and flurried, "? " "Will it be a snare? " "Known what is to be done? " In one morning, though the girl calls ceaselessly, the drunkard is hesitating. Meet, calm elimination of girl nervous and awkward in drunkard afternoon. Because fear that there is the one that is familiar with around " Eyes " ,The drunkard has gone to the hotel to open a single room. Girl voluntarily,is it loud to turn on by voice on television, it is have a bath first not to undress, then, then Everything is over soon. The drunkard makes an excuse to go out and buys medicines, while the girl has run in the bathroom. Later on two people still can run into on the net, the girl said that her one wanted to enjoy life, but the drunkard regrets a bit. 19 years old for two Zhang Li of embodiment, just graduated from one normal school in Chongqing. While chatting on the net in April, she knew a man net friend " person who has died " in Nanjing ," person dying " Endeavour to invite Zhang Li to come to Nanjing to play, and promise her to entertain her carefully after coming to Nanjing. Hear these swearing an oath in all solemnity, Zhang Li is carrying 400 yuan, get to Nanjing after taking the train for dozens of hours. " person dying " Black and also thin and short, and " charming prince " in Zhang Li's mind The image differs greatly. She at that time a little disappointed, but another think oneself loud to run over far away, can't let others down, so has gone to play together with him. " person dying " Take Zhang Li to the hostel, has opened a room with her certificate and money, then two people go out to play. At one o'clock at night, two people get back to the room, " person dying " together Say to Zhang Li: "I want you to be my wife all one's life. " Hands begin to stretch to Zhang Li slowly too. Under Li Zhang accept while pretending to refuse, go to bed with him, a one's own one give this piece see net friend for a dozen hours only for the first time. Zhang Li woke up the next day, " person dying " Have disappeared. Zhang Li has got back to Chongqing. One or two months later, Zhang Li is pregnant, she can not dream, with the net friend's " love of one night " Unexpectedly bring such consequence to her. We find in the interview, to that " whether you have had experience of ' the love of one night of networks ' " in expert opinion Such questions, the other side's answer is often either excellent or dull stories. A meets with B by chance on the net, likes each other, then meet, then " love of one night " takes place ,Then say good-bye, does not get in touch again. Such a story, personages are different and the plot is identical. Raise thinking, the network has provided the space for a game life for people in American psychologist's Kimberley. In this concealed and safe space, people can look for various demands unrestrainedly, needn't be responsible for one's own behavior! Then there is love online, even online marriage. " love of one night of the network " Situation specially a little. It is actually people's behavioral extension on net. The overwhelming majority happens because of network " The love of one night " Story, the intersection of men and women and still when being a certain unreal protagonist of inside. Even if met under the sunshine, they still regarded the other side as the net friend, thought that can not need to make something responsibly. Reveal, 35.55% people think, " love of one night " according to the census data done on the net Just pursue and stimulate and interesting each other: 35.55% people think too, really there are compositions adored here among them. And this kind " Adore " ,Also mostly got from the fictitious network world. And just because of the relation of the network, these " love of one night " Age of protagonists of men and women of the story is about 20 more. Perhaps, they are full of youth and vigor, but lack the ripe and rational head. " love of one night of the network " The just varied network " The disease " One kind of China. Now, the psychologists are attempting to help people from these " diseases " China recovers over. I wish to have " The condition " One day when dispel. The love online of relevant word: Talk love on the net. Online marriage: The ones that set up on the net " The marriage relation " . Love fictitiously: Adopt some special technological means to come on the net " Make love " . Census data You think you happen between the net friends " The love of one night " Reason what last each carry on on the net to investigate among a small circle) ? A is a physiological need completely: 13.33% B pursues and stimulates and interesting: 35.55% C really has compositions adored: 35.55% D is not clear, have not tried: 15.55% (Www.qianlong.com)

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