Begin popular woman ruffian lost to marry single _ have now

Begin popular woman ruffian lost to marry single _ have now

As woman, what is most great goal of life.
Finish saying this words, begin to smoke oneself again - -Why say " As the woman" ,But not " As the mankind " ? Emphasize gender so, because of
Used to the weak tendency.
Distress very, mother of I, see around me the intersection of friend and one marry, lose, make a living piece bungle disaster into hands but worry.
She receives my friends' telephone sometimes, will ask others very too shily: "Do you help her to look for a good man? You have found the good man by oneself. " Then return the language tape to threaten: "You are her best friends - -"Listen to so that I fly into a rage.
Why I till now I review too still without marrying, then there is this question begun most: As the woman, what is the greatest goal of life? Get married? Is it an ultimate goal to get married?
Of course not.
Now I am very happy that has not married too early by oneself. I understood a wind, only saw men not see the good man at that time. I am a one-stop person of that kind of hope, once can't divorce to get married, but if marrying too early, my present curriculum vitae must be " Before having no child " . That is that I am more unwilling to see.
The more and can not marry, the more can not marry, this is a truth. Because with the years, economic condition and social value grow simultaneouly, the unmarried man equal to my age, can not mix me. Especially " getting on in years " ,The individual character will be a bit odd more or less, I understand now why others talk about " spinsters " Not easy to get along, it is not that only their temper is strange, in fact who does not have some tempers? There are women in the room to but there is home, will be because of the restraint of the social environment, under the omnipresent influence, control one's own temper. We this kind have woman ruffian that house does not engage in, have a few the intersection of wretch and strength more or less, one people hungry to owe to have enough whole family who debt who feeling does it owe either, why control? We still walk crosswise in the home town, we are still angry to wash corrida, we must also speak to and did not allow people.
Very unfair to my mother, by this age, my requirements for man are not only not low, it is higher and higher instead. Treat oneself as of many years' standing secondhand goods at all, want, accompany, smile half sell, send off by half. Now I think I has serious and lively industry and bravery, chisel growing up to be a useful person early, take a broad view, aimless people can not still really enter my eyes. Certainly, it is still very modest in the mouth, only say: "Look for man now, hope he can help I, ask him it ties down Is to be better only. "
The girl friend often regrets, why not answer still a lonely one a certain man even now early, I console her: "Those women marrying too early, the reason why marry too early, because the wedding that they do not have no ability, can not take care of oneself. And we, as soon as we have ready conditions to choose singly, we prove the condition is still fairly good. "
The woman ruffian whom we can not be married like this, the goal is to follow one's bent in life. I understand annual long girlfriend a bit those more and more now, why round by the young little beautiful boy. It is said that three is happy: "I do not believe I am ten older years olds now, can't let so beautiful little clever boy infatuated with me. " Marry, lose, I self-confident, in understand what let " hoard sth. as a rare commodity in expectation of a better price " on one's body by oneself ,Think it is the countless doors at the moment, behind the door, it is the countless possibility.
Marry, lose, matter, I comfort I and like of me, let those marriage man of us worry about, go.


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