Obsession of modern white collar fashion?
Brief content:On the way to airport, always think the plane ticket is left behind, then check one's own bag repeatedly; Park the good car and get back to the office, always think the door has not been locked, then go to the garage to go to check; While having a class, always think the mobile phone is ringing, according to taking out the mobile phone in the schoolbag constantly These are white collar do you feel very familiar with?
Know from psychological clinic of some psychological advisory organizations and hospitals of Shanghai recently, in all patients coming to see a doctor, obsession or force the behavioral patient to account for 20%, among them the white collar accounted for 20%-25%, and university student's proportion was up to 60% unexpectedly! Some teachers joined this too unexpectedly " The team " ! A bit intermediate and even severe obsession patient, feel one's own disease does not know how to ask, feel very painful.
, no " Toss about " Report form will " very much oppressed, feel a pain very much " .
"I think oneself very busy recently, but does not know what are busy with! Working efficiency is very low! " 34 -year-old Chen Yan (assumed name) Say to teacher Yan ZhengWei of psychological consultation anxiously. Chen Yan is a regional executive of a famous insurance company in Shanhai, because it is conscientious and meticulous to do things, have won subordinate admiration and respect. But she comes to a psychological consultation office silently recently.
Chen Yan tells the teacher Yan ZhengWei of psychological consultation, the report form that she always afraid the assistants is badly cooked, though go all out to let him make, the last always can't help checking again oneself, and still worried after checking once, will check repeatedly, check several times. "Toss about to toss about like this, often others have come off duty for a long time, but I am still working. " The ones that upset her even more are, do not know this kind of habit very well obviously oneself, but can't control one's own behavior - -If not like this " Toss about ", know " very much oppressed, feel a pain very much " ; Only in this way repeated " Toss about " ,Will think " comfortable, better than " .
"This may be typical forcing symptom. " Having listened to Chen Yan, there are answers in the stern big heart, has but not pointed out. Through chat, he find swallow Chen have others to force symptom: Go to work and park the good car every day, get back to the office, is always afraid the door has not been locked, can go five or six times of garage to look over one's own door unexpectedly in one day sometimes; She will lock one's own drawer repeatedly, fear the drawer and has not locked; After coming out from home, she is always afraid the door has not been closed well, can run and come back home to check The stern and big judgement that these symptoms have proved, he explains: A lot of people, especially the personage of layer of management, strive to be perfect to do things, it is excessive to behave sometimes, will force the behavior, but the majority Yes self-control.
Second, 30 million people in the world suffer from " Perfect obsession " .
"Because force personality, force the behavior to come to the psychological consultation office to consult or treat, mostly the white collar of career, among them is in taking the suitable proportion of administration and supervision authorities. " Yan ZhengWei introduces, in recent years, consulting forces the behavioral crowd to rise year by year, especially see in the cities of competition high pressures such as Shanghai, Beijing, Guangzhou,etc. more, the proportions of men and women are about 6: 4. The main characteristic of the people is making excessive demands perfectly, demand to be too strict to oneself, in the tense and anxious state for a long time.
The hospital clinical psychological precious professor in the country Colin of Rui Jin says, some university students are while reading, only turn to some page one, read repeatedly, the knowledge afraid of this page one has not been absorbed in; While entering the bedroom, want the left foot to enter the door; Some teachers will crosscheck the answer, has feared and criticized the examination paper by mistake when changing papers. "Some professional crowds having dealings with figure, symbol,etc., especially force symptom easily too, such as accountant, bank clerk,etc.. "
Know in the interview, obsession is not merely the ordinary people's " patent " ,Some celebrities often force behaviors too. English star Beckham exposed to the sun and suffered from obsession by oneself not long ago, he required everything perfectly or methodically. So long as come down idly, he will put beverage, clothes and magazine of home,etc. again and again, the perfect pattern will be stopped until reaching in one's own heart. The statistics show, over 30 million persons suffer from this kind of " perfect obsession " in the whole world ,Among them there are some successful personages like Beckham.
Third, force symptom it may not be obsession.
"' the label ' that don't stick obsession on others easily! " This is Lin GuoZhen and Yan ZhengWei's common view. It is not obsession to force symptom, the latter is a kind of common psychiatric department disease, patient the young and the middle aged mostly, the ill rate is about 1%-2% all the life, 75% of the patients had illness coming on 30 year old ago. Force the difference between normal people and obsession patient of symptom to lie in, force the severity (the frequentness, intensity and duration of forcing symptom to appear) of symptom ,And the intensity of psychological conflict caused by this.
Yan ZhengWei analyzes, the influence of subconscious seems very important in childhood. He give an example, mother of Yan Chen pieces of perfect doctrine person, these kind of " perfect complex " Inculcated with to her while as a child, implied everywhere she did things perfectly. Chen Yan is while going to the college, because there is no pressure, behaviors are normal. After serving as the administrative staff, the pressures of various fields have brought out her forcing the behavior. "From the viewpoint of hereditary angle, parents both sides have obsession, children's morbidity is about 7%-8%. " Lin GuoZhen says, in addition, some organic factors such as epilepsy, wrestling as a child,etc., also may cause the emergence of obsession.
Fourth, the obsession is " Strange disease " " fashion disease " ?
"I come home from work every day, wash hands in first thing. Finish washing and also want to wash, must take the cotton ball of alcohol and sterilize to finish washing again each time, do not always think the bacterium on hand can wash off. Especially after shaking hands with others or touching the money, being to the bathroom. Hands can all had one's hair washed white in winter, but can not just control. " When Miss Gao looks for Yan ZhengWei to consult obsession, hope sternly bigly to help her. Like Miss Gao, most persons suffering from obsession are all standing this illness quietly, because they feel this is too embarrassed, too shy to look for help, always think what oneself suffered from is the unique " strange disease " in the world .
Because in have, force in the behavioral crowd, it pursues perfect high tube and university student to be relatively more, many experts describe this " The fashion disease " . Some experts think, various modernized communication apparatuses and communication means such as TV, computer, mobile phone, Internet bring convenience for people, also bring new puzzlement to career personage, they are easy to present and impatient, panic, symptom such as being even dizzy, uncomfortable in chest. The expert points
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