Special psychological stage of the single old man

Special psychological stage of the single old man
People large to fear lonely age have, in single the elderly, psychological activity its change a loud one the person who berefts of one's spouse of old age most. Especially there is more chance that old women bereft of one's spouse, so the sex psychological characteristics of general mental process and single old man that old age of the following key analysis berefts of one's spouse.
(1) Widowed the psychology of the elderly's widowed old man of psychological activity characteristic chan ges usually more violent, its psychological activity can be divided into five stages:
At first stage, all psychological activities concentrate on pointing to the dead recently. A lot of often overwhelmed with sorrow people, reach stage that very much can't want, they the tears cry all day, even refuse the dead to cremate or are buried.
The second stage, get angry or have hostility to the dead and other people. At this moment, the dead have already left at one's side, the persons who retain will often be facing toward he (she) in photos Sulky, vent one's spleen on it who is not to blame to other people again, it is very easy to quarrel with others for no reason at all.
The third stage, require support and help of other persons. Because the spouse loses, the old attachment relation has already passed out of existence, sad mood begins to give vent to others. Whether they will often like to hear regardless of others, tell one's own misfortune to all people, hope to receive others' sympathy and help.
At fourth stage, they have already clearly realized, the spouse has already lost forever, normal life upset completely already, whole heart desperate to occupy.
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