How has the only-child received the grievance to guide release mood

How has the only-child received the grievance to guide release mood
Brief content: The at present only-children compare oneself, can receive a little hurt and wronged and querying, it is very difficult to meet the setback in social life to get rid of like this, how to guide them?
The present only-child belongs to it absolutely at home " The core " ,Receive much concern of adult, thus lead to the fact their self- sense of superiority is stronger and stronger, the self-esteem is stronger too. When the concern of paying them is short of some, understanding and acceptance that they often can't be correct, think that it is hurt and wronged to receive by oneself, and adopt oneself to defend the mechanism to resist and protest, the development in the future to the child of this kind of personality is extremely unfavorable. Medical university one institute spiritual the intersection of psychology dept. and Fan learn to defeat a professor and say, at this moment, parents want to lead the child to release grievance mood.
Change this kind of state, the reason needing parents to find out about their grievance in time, guide the intersection of they and the intersection of release and mood correctly, let child receive hurt and wronged unhappy to lead off, come out. At this moment, so long as the child's words and deeds are not excessive, parents should accept, and allow children to cry and scream appropriately. Later, comforted children carefully, tried to make their mood resume calming down gradually after breaking out.
But pacify children and does not equate with and submit to children unconditionally. Parents' if fine long hair unprincipled yielding to children simply, will get up to the result of running counter to desire. After the child's mood is calm, parents can let children state the ins and outs of the thing. What merits attention is, must let children state voluntarily, when they mention one's own feeling, encourage it to say why there is such feeling. After it listen carefully,parents are should calm if you can't have, last child several question in terms of other people, lead the child to look at problem in terms of others.
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