Single monologue: It is but not a noble definitely to be single

Single monologue: It is but not a noble definitely to be single
A difficult a generation who let elders save worry that we one group of such seem: A lot of people's calf love, but can not see we " love decently " when should get married in the childhood ," get married and get married normally " . A puzzled generation that we one group of such hit small and have effection: We firmly believe this in the world will certainly have love, that to can initiate all love to have magic power of miracle, we firmly believe precious love that very much difficult to come at our body miraculously equally too. We, the seventies (born from 1970 to 1975) ago These usual men and women, love find if wanting, getting getting more difficult more very actually when finding by one's own homing. Interview and write down notes: I was born in 197X that annual generation too, I was from " calf love clan " too Grow into " No the wedding clan " That groups of person,too like this of mine in friend, classmate, colleague with taking the place of at one's side, so think life ought to be like this. Until there is the elder that cries out in alarm: You? You! You, why not get married and get married? This find those it gets to be old enough to get married age person who has not got married already at one's side, the majority was these of ours unexpectedly just. Then look for the origin and find all women say, we do not think of " no the wedding " ,But who is married? The man says, we do not think of " no the wedding " ,Just wait for a moment. The woman says usually: After the marriage is crowded, exactly only a person's vacant color (assumed name) ,27 year old, reporter, she say I find unmarried of the right age man only to 5 years, born the women of 5 years before and after us, were all so in great demand, had only, we, before sum is crowded, have been fallen down after the marriage is crowded. Early the intersection of we and people for 5 years, is the person in latter stage of the sixties, their understanding was, during 26 years old, 27 years old, look for one and one's own marriage of the same age, it is this generation of ours, but the man thinks the marriage is chains, take 33 years old, get married, the better the condition of choosing spouse is that the wife's age is the less too. Like this, it is not all right that we marry the man of the same age now, they are unwilling to get married now, it is not all right to marry later, they are unwilling to marry us of the same age who have already ageing. Then we do " It is relatively small (old and small) Wife " ,older without being married by piece, or hopeless, 30 more than those peopleses of years old have to get married early already? Age that 27 years old is so awkward. The intersection of people and marriage and choose spouse the intersection of idea and epoch-making change, make us have only man's vacant on woman of the seventies put up at the these. Li Bing is net, 28, assistant lawyer, she says, " no the wedding " But not get married these of ours are said old and saying the big very old woman, can only in this way be called helplessly " No the wedding clan " . Not bad, the prosperity and development of the society make us stand such a " no the wedding " Experience. In the past, there is no place to go to came off duty and did not go home, it is lonely to then divert oneself from loneliness or boredom in order to kill time, what is to be done not to get married? In the past, men and women will be spoken to practise to the target when seeing a film alone, for spirit and physiological health, how can it be carried on if not getting married? Now, place of entertainment and amusement project increase, the income increases, improvement of terms lives, people's idea changes, nowadays we have VCD to look, there are streets that are strolled around, there are bars that get to know the friend, it can also be in order to surf the Net and chat directing oneself from boredom to be stuffy at night, especially, because is the unmarried one, we can also make an intimate male friend. Now, " no the wedding clan " Life than getting married and dull at all, the only difference is to lack any rights and obligations: Can get the other side's right of half the property in divorce while short of some of married peopling, also short of perhaps will also turn the obligation to walk half property divided by the other side around. The man says usually: " no the wedding " So the ones that deceive oneself make graceful great department, 29 years old, editor, he says, just single, the noble can not begin to talk about it when still holding 5 fen ice-lolly in the mouth definitely, we begin to listen to " carry on one's shoulder or back the east " with putting machine with the board brick only ,The synthetic acoustics of that electron is ravaged changed beyond recognitionly, but we have remembered the mood of that song, it is others that finish drinking the mood of inspiration after XO. Even if we grow up like this, under fairly poor material conditions, but receive material conditions, the other environments better grow the infecting of thought sent out, we are a generation whose consciousness is superior to the material. So there are not material conditions " No the wedding " When, we do not get married so what has been just deceived oneself is done gracefully. In fact, really all right " no the wedding " Have only " The noble " ,The single loneliness that others can spend money and divert oneself from loneliness or boredom, otherwise it is very good to get married, needn't invite people to dinner but a companion speaks with you on the dining table equally, it is all right for two persons to buy a TV set and look, can save mobile phone telephone expenses and expenses of surfing Internet paid because a person is boring. But I am still " No the wedding " ,But because our idea lets us realize this point leadingly, " no the wedding " It is a trend. The reason why, don't describe us into some " single nobles " ,Just single, the noble can not begin to talk about definitely. David five, 27 years old, the staff member of foreign enterprise, he says, " no the wedding " For " The freedom not done " " no the wedding " It is helpless, but " no the wedding " Really suit us this generation, because of freedom. What is freedom? Elder brother's elder sister's freedom of times is to read several books suitable for outside reading, can do some things that they want to do. We nobody afford to stop from childhood, then the freedom that we hope is not to do the homework, have no class. Then, the meaning in us of freedom, not merely lie in doing the thing that oneself wants to do, the most important one still lies in not making the thing that oneself does not want to do, " no the wedding " Meaning too this - -Have the freedom to do. The work of getting married and can like equally, the restaurant that can like, play with the amusement liked, but needn't do those things that you do not like: Get up, sweep the floor, have a bath. So " no the wedding " Also pretty good. Postscript: The helpless one " No the wedding " Really relatively general in this generation that the state was born at the beginning in the 1970s. But the excessive responsibility for investigating the time difference of the trend is one-sided. When they began to enter colorful time at the end of the eighties, there are numerous choice chances too. They at that time, may pay close attention to the companion's condition, the too frightened marriage that failed excessively, or the excessive responsibility that fears to be be born soon Flowing water fall, spend, time very go. In the middle of this, perhaps there is necessity in a kind of chance? Fat star Select from the health network of three nine-day periods after the winter solstice

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