Only-child generation flash wedding flash leave phenomenon increase rapidly divorce the intersection of reason and the intersection of thunder and people very much

Only-child generation flash wedding flash, leave phenomenon increase rapidly, divorce the intersection of reason and the intersection of thunder and people very much
As the saying goes : Able to establish one's career at thirty . As a generation of only-child with the distinct distinction, young men and women born after 1980 are stepping into the palace of the marriage gradually. Meanwhile, some people among them turned into " L 30 is left " . Reporter the intersection of mountain, drum-tower,etc. and several court of district know divorce case of people these account for, divorce 2 to 30% of the total number already at present from storehouse recently, and have the tendency to increase, the obvious characteristic that they divorce is that the marriage keep time short, the psychology is more gentle while divorcing.
" L The wedding flashes to flash and leave " R The question is outstanding
Typical case: Live Mr. Li on mountain of the storehouse enters a big company to work after graduation from university, shortly after know it is lively by beautiful young ladies tight at introduction of friend. Two people fall in love at first sight, associate for less than two months and go on the red carpet hand in hand.
After the wedding, the tight young lady resigns the work of the other places, has become the main woman of full-time family. Having diminished social activities, the husband has become the life centre of her. She uses all surplus energy for following the trail of the husband, should search the husband's wallets and mobile phones every day, if find the information that husband and other opposite sexes associate, will make a scene, make Mr. Li suffer unspeakably. Lived together for less than half a year, both sides felt very tired, go to the court to divorce finally.
The judge comments on : " After 50 " , " After 60 " R Unless divorce, mostly it is live together for many years both sides,marriage is it unable to stand, have for relation to reach from stage, just demand to divorce. But some " After 80 " R Seem divorcing graceful extremely,can't think of from from,a lot of " L Flash and leave " R Person say before this whether understand, never expect by he (she) So much trouble . And cause " L Flash and leave " R Reason,exactly seemingly fashionable " L The wedding flashes " .
It is understood thoroughly that scarce before marriage, without getting married carelessly through the careful consideration, the emotional foundation is not firm; And the rhythm of life of city is quick, the heart is apt to be impetuous, do not understand oneself adjusts right and forgives the other side after happening contradictorily, lack social responsibility, cause and divorce carelessly finally.
Bad marriage of self-care ability of living is firm
Typical case : It is small and beautiful and A is bright (It is the assumed name ) The university is classmates together, have already led hands romantically in the campus, has spoken of the love. After graduation from university soon, they bought a house in the location of the centre of drum block under each parents' subsidy, and got married . Shortly after after marriage, they find both sides can not do house work, the self-care ability of life is very bad. They both are from Fuzhou, a total, reach each parents' home usually " L Rub meals " ,Eat out, take weekend, family hygiene ask part-timer make, wash the intersection of clothes and little one put the washing machine, sending the laundry to dry-clean of major possession.
Once, two people are hungry when going home after playing outside, but there is no food in the refrigerator. A shout light to go, buy some food come back downstairs while being beautiful tomorrow, say oneself to be even tired while being beautiful while being small very, let A buy tomorrow . A will begin to criticize not to be hardworking fast, small and beautiful smallly and beautifully and refute reluctant to show weaknessly too tomorrow, therefore the two National People's Congress has had a row . Both sides are to this everyday " L Live in the hotel " R The life of the type thinks boring, determine to divorce soon after marriage, and the question of cutting apart for the wedding room etc. made a noise to go to court.

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