Man " official holiday " Countermeasure

Man " official holiday " Countermeasure
Silently, it is more and more that the man's sexual desire fails, even has no interest at all to the sex. Some very healthy young husband want, see TV willing to go to bed as program often. Some man say oneself play mahjong get into the habit, reckon wife to be children fast asleep already always, " fight " Come to an end. There are some people, like working overtime on festivals or holidays, go on business and strive to go, the wives all suspect he is " like another world quite different from this world " on the outside ,reveal he by that on oneself to " hide from quiet " . No wonder someone says, the man has " official holidays" too ,Only sometimes wear and make the woman startled. If run into this kind of situation, in the sexual life, the husband looks like and " does duty " . This kind of situation, what we can know must be only a drop in the ocean. Because of the tradition according to the society, this is the greatest scandal in male world. Such a man will be buckled " Impotence " Cap,consider as "eunuch " , " coward " With " disabled person " . It overcomes the keys of situation to be to should relax oneself, make some sport activity, light recreation, have hot bath,etc. rapidly. After it lasted some time, by the time one's own body and mind has been really relaxed completely, and then put into the sexual life. Some men think by mistake, after spirit was highly tense, should regulate oneself with sexual life. Also there are men, regard some artistic works as a sexology work by mistake, thought by mistake the sexual life can be regarded as " cardiotonic " Come to use, so as to refute science. In fact, this only knows only one aspect of a thing. The state of mind to the man of the sexual life will really produce and regulate the function with the intensification sometimes, but the precondition is, the man must be relaxed by the psychology at this moment, have the intersection of psychology and tired accumulation, have that kind come, relieve the lonliness and grief with sexual life direct oneself from boredom too high to expect. Otherwise can only run counter to desire. So, the relation here is: Relax in the front,sex in behind,relaxed when coming but not sex. Can often be found in daily life: Seek the sexual life without relaxing by oneself after being highly tense, the lower the quality of the sexual life is, even bring bad response and feeling, influence the sexual desire in the future. Also there is another situation. Some man, when engaged in the highly nervous spiritual activity, the intersection of time and long one that, often can can't help thing of person who associate it with, thus seem to be, break out, happen sexual desire come suddenly. The younger man presents this kind of situation easily. This is not strange, because various excitement centres on the cerebral cortex can be communicating. Other excitement, it is tired and inhibiting not to lead to the fact, that one does not have assorted one who influence. If estimate that will not cause the assorted one's harmful effects to the work later on by oneself, the opportunity is suitable, that one lets nature take its course too. (www.qianlong.com)

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