The man likes envying too

The man likes envying too
People often say " The vinegar wife " ,woman good at jealous of, it seems that the man has not envied it. Actually this is not so, the man just collects envying the heart, the thing just envied is different from and the woman. In a research, the psychologist chooses a group of volunteers, design two kinds of different causing the scheme envied, the psychology of measurement under two kinds of situations rises and falls. The sexual relations have happened to one's own companion and other persons to let them imagine at fi rst. As a result, man's heart rate of every minute increases by 5 times, mean drinking 3 cups of special robust coffee, but the woman's heart rate only increases by once. On the contrary, let volunteers imagine companion and others passionate dispute, the man's response is only general, the woman's response but it is very big. The conclusion is that the man likes envying as woman, only the thing that they envy is different. The psychologist finds too, women's achievement in career, will strengthen its male companion's jealousy heart. Envy the target for being often the men working together with his wife or girl friend. The man scarely has and admits envying hearts by oneself, this is because it comes from lacking sense of safety to envy. Requiring men to be strong and resolute traditionally, the man fears to be known to lack sense of safety oneself naturally. Form reason to envy psychology, first feel self-humiliation excessively; Second, perceive oneself and husband and wife are threatened, and the self-protection that produces reacts. Most men are based on the second reason. The psychologist points out, most women admit they expect even like the man's jealousy psychology, so the man's jealousy, may not be a bad thing. So long as it is apt to control, don't let it developed into an extreme hatred heart to be all right. Transfer it to from colorful valley

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