The man should learn to pour out too
In life, men and women will all meet various pressure, but women seem born dissolving the pressure more easily than men. For example, when women's heart is constrained and depressed, she may let friends pour out, Israel tries to get understanding and helps, when it is difficult to bear in the agony, she will even cry, make mood relieve temporarily. Men are different, they pay attention to the undertaking or yearn for succeeding, does not know how to reduce pressure for oneself. In order to mediate the pressure, some male regular meetings form and eat and drink immoderately, excessive the bad habit of getting drunk and smoking etc., but these behaviors are not only right to relieve the pressure helplessly, will cause the injury to the health instead.
The psychologist studies to show, the men 40-65 years old, cardiovascular vessel disease suffers from leading relatively women have another more it 3 times, besides relating to the fact that the woman has hormone of hormone that is protected on one hand, on the other hand one bears the pressure with men higher than women, at ordinary times but discongested attentively to have something to do. As the pressure has reached limit, will accumulate strongly fragrantly and become disease finally. Not only cause psychological disease, but also will influence the health. More unfortunately, the man is sick and unwilling to seek medical advice in time, it is strong to count on, have neglected the serious consequence that disease causes. Analyst think spirit less centralized when man drive, in angry anxious unhappy state while being easy, this relates to the fact that psychological pressure is too great at ordinary times too.
So, men should learn to discongest the agony, as thinking that has born the large pressure very much, should let somebody pour out, don't hide in the heart deeply. If meet the problem difficult to solve, or the thing unwilling to talk about to family, spouse, might as well seek the professional personage voluntarily, such as the help of the psychologist, while poured out, can get the release of the pressure. Not only contribute to lightening the setback and feeling of pressure like this but also still can prevent disease.
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