Why does the man think others' wife is good? 's marriage psychology

Why does the man think others' wife is good? 's marriage psychology
In man's heart: It is good that the wife is always others', the child is one's own stick! This is so-called person's wife's complex of men. The wife who always compares with people bears in mind constantly, is deeply in love with!
Man first, more than 30, the undertaking succeeds small. Normally said but reached while beginning to consider the matrimonial affair too, he does not want. Ask the reason, answer: "Did not feel about all girls. " Either think them frivolous and artificial, their affected unconvention that or think, having no intension. He claims these girls take off the light to only creep into in one's arms, he does not have physiological response. Whether asking he respect has a question, answer. No. And see some is gentle and cultivated, the thought is solid, already been wives of people's women, even if separate a street, the knowing tide is swung. So, in the past ten years, the love has not been discussed.
Man's second, married for two years, the beloved wife is full of resentment. Anger, at the his silk tree, always one pair of eyes is closed, I wonder that appreciates that holds happy holding. What is more, roar, go out of the intersection of house and No., the colleague's name of sister-in-law. The beloved wife attacks bitterly, the cold war begins, what this man avoided does not dote on.
Man third, the marriage has not passed for seven years, has already itched. Wife's sister's good friend, brother's friend's wife, feel that is better than oneself wife. Then it is ambiguous to look forward to, the another taste of illusion. Begin to come and go closely, create the opportunity. Imply several, although has been refused, indomitable, expect the harvest.
The above-mentioned three men, display the difference, but belong to the first disease. Is it excellent to think and read beautifully? Chase and ask newly differently? See that thinks virtuously neatly? In fact, this is only a person's wife's complex. What is the wives of people complex? Emotion expert explain man's feeling to lover more and more light, and increasingly dense complex to others' the intersection of wife and interest. What reason is this? In fact this is that a psychological factor is doing mischief.
It is different to let man think wife always others' and kind for visual angle to deposit. As to one's own wife, the time disappearing silently polished the passion in the past slowly. That advantage that once had one's body covered with, in a pair of eyes staring at it closely, had lost color gradually. And because North Korea curtain curtain inclusive to help, those mottled to come out while being conspicuous see once. Gradually, the wife who has one's body covered with the advantage turns into a shortcoming that has one's body covered with. And others' wife, because is only the future consideration, there are only advantages in what you see. The two compare, one's own wife is worse and worse, others' wife is better and better. This lets some men the less feel, appreciate others' wife more and more to one's own wife.
In fact, this is only a future consideration and near question that peeps. What you see is others' wife of the advantage, in the view of her husband, there are a lot of shortcomings too. A lot of marriages have no shortcoming, the shortcoming is psychology and eyes that you have not appreciated the marriage. As to the wife, you will find her beautiful and enlarging her beauty even more. It is not someone that talk about, life does not lack beauty, the ones that lacked are finding.
Look for novelty and ask disloyalty to speak to and let the man betray original intention. The candid one says, the wife is man's original intention of all one's life hand in hand. But the trial and washing of years, the man's wife, does not have feeling of freshness. As time passed, the passion is diluted by time too. And others' wife, because has not got, always feel fresh. Have limitless reverie, figure, trunk, every possible detail then that that always, will all bring the limitless passion. This kind asks the fresh one, the psychology that wants to experience the difference and experiences, it is a reason of illusion wives of people of most men.
Certainly, a lot of thing to think, but there is risk factor innately. Like first man, the intersection of people and wife of him, to to repel psychology normal girl, because how lovely it will be girls, not also injured by some girls. And because before realizing yet how lovely girls are, the body and mind that the wives of people bring to oneself is joyful that he realized. That kind of initial one shakes regret, it is best, most wonderful, can bring the happy one to oneself to let him believe in that most. This point has experienced into a dose of poison that he resisted the girl of the same age.
Undeniable, in wives of people complex, it is conquering the psychology and haunting of the man not to exclude from having a part. The man who conquers the desire exists, think that it is a kind of success to capture the wives of people's sweet-smelling heart. They one piece in one's own eyes everywhere outstanding and very supercilious the intersection of people and wife put under body even, that is that a kind of psychology gives vent to even more. This kind is conquered and wanted to be man's characterized arrogance, reflect that to one's own affirming and stimulating the self-confidence and passion too. The person with this kind of psychology, the one that often may not be got expects, and can not the less get. In experience fresh satisfying, conquering wanting, that bring out into passion that happen, want, experience next, play another, getting fresh the next one eager to have a try. This kind is each to look for novelty to ask differently, will let those men conquered others' pleasant sensation again and again, and these will let them have a fulfillment more and more. Even for make the goal under oneself, target some people and or up to a certain number some.
Sex in adult, the intersection of people and the intersection of wife and complex in man, we work well morals come on, judge. The sexologist will not say, people are sexual rights. Seek not to go wrong in one's own right, some ideas and behaviors burst out in human nature depths, also there is no fault. However, as an important component of life, the marriage needs the steady one. Likewise, the society needs too to be steady. You always stare at others' wife, your wife may be stared at by others too. So, the man does not want to think a cuckold, must start from oneself! Otherwise, when it is liked privately that you steal for presenting a green cap for other men, you may have been already deducted firmly by a bunch of green caps!
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