Why does the man have neurosis _ psychology of green caps to explore the secret

Why does the man have neurosis _ psychology of green caps to explore the secret
One very interesting phenomenon, man on business or exterior constellation for some reasons, oneself have nothing that feel. And once the woman goes out, often " have a guilty secret " ,Though not like the thing that the woman deal with the man, the telephone is one by one, alsoFidgety. The person who will joke says so: Couple are affectionate and thus clear, wifeTake offThe body is even unwilling at one night.
The men all fear the green cap
In fact, look from psychological angle, this is a man " unstability sense " with hiding heart ,We pop ask for the time being " Green capFearDisease " ,this plant "it is stable non- " What happened to to fear the wife and carry oneself. Research indicates, the woman is well-above man's trust on the wife to the husband's trust. This is unanimous with actual life - -The man can drink, play mahjong bold and assuredly all through the night outside, coax a few words to send to the woman, and the man is not often this kind of situation to the woman.
Having ever seen a case, a couple declare the marriage disintegrates after being been married for three years, the reason for divorce is - -The husband distrusts the wife extremely, so long as the wife goes out, the husband will check her pants soon, if find the secretion more, namely should get to the bottom, hotly pursue and fiercely attack. Terribly suspicious for a long timeTenseLived in the atmosphere, the string of the marriage was first broken before people's nerve ruptured at last.
SexYesFor monopolize psychology
There are sexual behaviors, will inevitablely leave the secretion greater in quantity on the pants, this husband " The detection means of chastity " It may well be straightforward, but he has forgotten, women's lower part of the body secretion increases and comes from a great deal of respects, except sexual activity (including imagination) ,There is gynaopathy, violent health sports,etc., " secretion " The ones that become his distrust psychology " The substitute " ,Have taken shape " The secretion " =" overstep the limit " Psychological strange circle.
Another kind of typical one " Doubt the wife " The behavior is - -To the men around wife, demonstrate strong disgust, colleague, classmate, friend even relative, the man, the frequency is larger that get along, especially there are many chances that the wife mentions, list him in " The blacklist " ,Bearing this share " The blacklist " ,Accumulate strongly fragrantly and become " Green cap neurosis " ,Study, arrange wife and these in colored attention " The suspicious target " Contact frequency, field and time,is it high-level to in guard for a long time and it last state, always think " There is such a thing " ,But can not always stress the handle.
Extension of virgin's complex
The reason why this kind of distrust forms is numerous, several types that but only stand up synthetically: First, " virgin's complex " Make right, wife " the place" get married, ,Or very clear, oneself is not the first lover of hers; Second, remarried couple, two people all have wedding history, and there is " long for and go through " at various degrees ; Third, feel self-humiliation the psychology does mischief, this kind of situation is generally that the wife is extroverted, the undertaking wants more than the husband at work " Turn out a prestigious institution " , there are woman's strong man's weak phenomena; Fourth, say, perplexed by the special example around, it is said a certain woman has such an experience, also watch out for one's own person everywhere.
As the saying goes " Worry still needs medicine medicine of heart " , " whoever started the trouble should end it " ,Believe in and come from depending on " calm " of personal heart too the purity of the emotions of both sides ,There is one " IllusionThe type " Inference all right consult - -It has if you say to have, you do not have when saying without it, then, why infer in order to have? Tamer Shang Ke in the zoo reaches the tacit understanding of getting along with the beast of prey, why not have more trust with one's own legal spouse?

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