It is said why the man is always " I am very busy " Time of _'s love

It is said why the man is always " I am very busy " Time of _'s love

" I am very busy " ,Have basically already become the pet phrase of China that a lot of men chatted about, then, are they really so busy? What is it and impel such a reason of theirs?
Do these men really love working in this way?

Actually this is not so, " I am very busy " Only their most frequently used lie, especially the most frequently used pet phrase in the love. Have psychological expert analyze love say " I am very much busy " Man mainly in consideration of five respects.
First, in the traditional idea, the man busy with the undertaking all day is a successful man, it is a good man, so, the man in the love even if the undertaking is mediocre, would like to use " I am very busy " To improve personal value.
Second, like in the phone or short information of cell phone while associating by some love past masters and women, use " I am very busy " Finish, talk voluntarily, let woman, adore woman of him, produce the illusion, produces more reliance senses, looks forward to the sense to him.
Third, the man not tall of intension either of ability and insight is in making a phone with women, often used to the loud cry of a birds
And stop, because he does not hope the other side " insists on getting to the bottom of the matter " ," I am very busy " It is his best excuse, he can run away openly and legally after finishing saying this sentence.
Fourth, some man that feel self-humiliation want, let woman cherish he further, " I am very much busy " often Chat about, let woman cherish every a chance that even he meet, raise and date " gold content " .
Fifth, find the appropriate reason or lack courage to refuse women because of all sorts of difficulties to bring the matter up by some man, use " I am very busy " Stall off the other side ambiguously.
" I am very busy " Does not stand time and test, if the man always says to the woman" I am very busy " ,Will increase the woman's sense of insecurity, if things go on like this, the woman will be worried turning into and detesting, because the woman not cleverer always hears " I am very busy " Also will understand the man's attention.
Because the woman thirsts for sense of safety and permanence of the marriage even more than the man, she is unwilling to be living in the man's " suspected fraud " In.
There is some " I am very busy " ,The man does not understand the foundation that people and people associate is to treat with all sincerity, so result in lacking the real friend. But because he is very difficult to give up the defect, the more improve " I am very busy " more and more instead Frequency of utilization,this kinds of vicious circle last he finally to be getting more lonely.


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