When does the man love his girl friend most? Time of _'s love

When does the man love his girl friend most? Time of _'s love


When does the man love his girl friend most? --The answer is, when his girl friend decides to leave him. Perhaps only at this time, the girl friend will hear these words once in dream and sleep from the man's mouth, " you are the my liking most " ," I can not live on to have no you " ," let's get married " .
But the man at ordinary times is not like this. They are very casual, absent-minded, the complaint about girl friend is unconcerned, would rather spend time on the Internet cafe or unwilling to accompany the girl friend to go shopping on the court. Once face saying good-bye, they grow alarmde and turn colour. At ordinary times say again and again: " only once had, why was as long as the heaven and earth endure " They begin mean not rowing it swear whether like not getting forever.
This change of theirs made the girl friend quite unexpected, originally thought that could leave this and not be in the mood for my darling easily, have not expected he has been turned into a sentimental feeling to be holy, even more fragile and more affectionate than the woman quickly.
He is not strong
Live together, mean the woman
Burn and observe and learn the other side's attention by experience constantly. For man, it is the greatest happiness to be together, everything is just fine. So it is often scarce to change in man's fine and smooth psychology to the girl friend and observe. The reason that waits for small animosity to accumulate composition hands, the man does not know the great change has already been led to.
The girl friend says: " let's say good-bye " . Then on the issue that begin to deal with the real one: The television belongs to someone, how does the cat does. This means overall situation of saying good-bye is already irreversible. In woman's mind, the man is very strong, he will accept this reality quickly. Wrong, hear the facial expression of the man of this news begin to be unatural, he lights a cigarette, make great efforts to cover up his mood. Smoke many, can not open. While waiting for opening, but got is: "Because it is not good for me, do you have others? " He do the best, make voice to be calm, but the intersection of tail and sound that tremble make people guess, get he overturning rivers and seas in the heart of hearts.
Case: Arnold's wife has left with another man. Whenever remember this, he is like the suffering in the hell. "At night when I can not forget those insomnia forever, imagine her lying in others' arms. She said that she wanted to give to children in that life, could stay with me in the past she would always practise contraception I introspect myself, where is not it good on earth. Why does she feel boring with me together? " Silence of him make wife of him think, it says good-bye to be a disaster to him. She can not know Arnold just dares to date with the girl again after 3 years.
As the girl friend's bottled-up rancour is strengthened, she begins to think of saying good-bye. For not allowing the response of the other side to be too fierce, she often starts like this with the tone of the agony: "Whether we separate for some time, think carefully? " The man is mute and right. Well, then separate for some time, remember, just some time, do not say good-bye. From then on, the man began to receive suffering. He keeps by the telephone all night, the news of waiting for the girl friend to come back. He walks up and down in the hollow room anxiously, reads the photo album in the past repeatedly, smoke more fiercely than any time, curl up and roll while sleeping. He stamped with rage at last, but this kind of behavior of his let girl friend down even more. " hope when he is strong, but he is so weak " .



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