The man will catch the postpartum too nbsp a few men of depression can present the not normal behavior

The man will catch the postpartum too nbsp a few men of depression can present the not normal behavior
The wife gives birth to the child, the husband becomes nervous and sensitive, too impatient to fit, even suffer from the depressed disease! The expert has analyzed, in fact depression has already no longer been the woman's patent postpartum, especially some men with fragile, sensitive personality, before and after the wife bears, easy because of adapt to transformation of role physiologically or psychologically, and unable to bear, come from life and double pressure at work and produce serious the intersection of setback and sense, even suffer from depression.
Research shows, this kind of symptom is infected and concerns with bad mood certainly too, for instance: Women produce depression on future trouble, the probability that its spouse suffers from depression can be up to 50%.
Fang Ning, Zhang QiuXia of document pure virtuous reporter of the old man of the reporter
Medical advice first director of affiliated hospital obstetrical department Professor Li DaoCheng of Chinese Medicine University in Guangzhou
Case one
The wife is pregnant he changes depression
Behind the tinkling of pieces of jade pregnant A, stipulate husband outstanding son can't have sexual intercourse with oneself month with the last one in will it be the first three months pregnancy period. As a result, get at night, the outstanding son sits holding two bottles of beer before the computer to play games, often play in the dead of night. She advises him to drink little beer and stay up few, but he says that can not fall asleep at night, as before.
After the son grows, A is outstanding says the parents in the countryside want to see the grandson. But family have two room only, A tinkling of pieces of jade hope own mother stay and help her to be in confinement around, A outstanding to twist, get up eyebrow says headache. The son is noisier at night, A is too outstanding to fall asleep further, will go to work again in the daytime, say headache, carries and aches once coming back home, touch the pillow and sleep, there is fewer and fewer.
Being tinkling of pieces of jade very strongly fragrant and bored, A afraid of, suppress, go down, cause postpartum depressed disease, pour out to good sisters silently. But good sisters say in a joking way : " You are still fine, that one of your family is like suffering from depression even more that I think! "
Case two
He is very nervous to act as father
" The wife is antenatal I am nervous the postpartum, and tense several months after getting. " The honour of A that has just worked as father recalls, it is not enough for him to already afraid of child's nutrition at that time, afraid again the wife is too arduous. Having spent expected date of childbirth when the wives still have no sound, A's honour is more tense.
" Her natural labor at last after 5 days of expected date of childbirth, but I can not enter the delivery room, nervous while waiting on the outside, it is still very complicated. " That day, A's honour did not sleep for nearly 24 hours.
After the daughter is given birth to, the wife can not press for the milk for the moment, seem a little agitated, the honour is at a loss in A nearby, become nervous again .
Psychologically : Worry wife and children health and future life
" Each family can only raise a child basically now, this course has been thrown into too many energies, and as the child's father, it is the common occurrence to be tense. " The first director of affiliated hospital obstetrical department Professor Li DaoCheng of Chinese Medicine University in Guangzhou claims, most men will all feel at a loss before and after the wife give birth to the children, whether many people are that the health worry to the child more than once, it is easier and tenser that the wife presents not in right time them, because they understand the knowledge of this respect very little.
Even if the child has grown smoothly, the distribution from input of energy to economic income, question had to consider . Parents relation on if wife and it is one's own with,suffer from by probability of depression to be will getting more high a little man. In addition, there is no an old man to help to look after children and family not high of income in the family, will change more greatly to live after one more child.
As the host's man, should take correctly except the daily work, the trival matters in life have to face too, think naturally that increases much more pressure quickly; , there will be more concerns about the baby behind the wife is pregnant, men may receive the neglect at various degrees, the men with unripe psychology will think that is attacked .
Give an idea :
Work out a plan again " L Make people " ,Make the few setbacks of preparation of foot
The city men and women to that those work is busier, Li DaoCheng advises them to try hard in a planned way " L Make people " ,Especially want the child after there is certain material base and do the psychological preparation of foot. In addition, advise men to study some child-bearing knowledge with wife before the child was born in, can buy the book to read, can also go to the school for pregnant women, carry on systematic understanding to gestation, giving birth to the nursing of the course, baby,etc., meet the question and consult more doctors or experienced experienced persons. Have done it in this way and already helped to reply more calmly when the wife needs, can also lighten the setback sense that oneself produces because of being ignorant.
And wife and other relatives and friends should for more care and encouragements to working as father's men soon this special period, train and strengthen man's sense of duty to the family.
Physiological : It is easy to be out-of-balance that the sexual life reduces the physiology
" The requirements for sex will be reduced to some extent during women are pregnant, this will cause a certain influence to male physiology too. " L Li DaoCheng points out, many men think when the wife is pregnant " R Neglected " ,Because the sexual life is reduced greatly.
Some women sleep with the husband separately after being pregnant, in this section " L The sex vacuum one " R Also neglected and carried on the exchange on the emotion with the husband, this is considered to cause one of the important factors of the male depression.
Give an idea :
Train the common interest to pay attention to emotion communication
In fact, behind the wife is pregnant, no matter man or women all need going on psychological health protection in time, in both sides' lacking exchange " L The vacuum one " ,Pay attention to the exchange of the emotion as supplementing further. For example, two people can train some common interests, in order that the baby's arrival and the parents role's conversion are ahead of time " Preheat " .
Influence by traditional culture, after the pregnancy should not think by a lot of woman sexual life. In fact, pregnancy period except that the first 3 month and the last 1 should reduce the sexual life month, other time are not basically influenced. It is sure to limit to receive only at the body posture, movements should try hard to be gentle too, the ones that should prevent from to pregnant woman's belly are pinched; Should reduce to the stimulus of the breast, so as not to cause the uterus to shrink, result in miscarrying or producing early.
Discover abroad
10% of the men are apt to suffer from postpartum depression
" Generally referring to postpartum depression, people all only think of women, but this has really already involved men more and more obviously, it is no longer only women's ' the patent '. " Li DaoCheng says, domestic there is less study on this respect at present, but discover abroad, to have 10% man apt to suffer from depression after the child was born in. Although more men have not developed into intensity of depression, it is at various degrees and tense and sensitive, anxious and fretful that can also appear, symptom of dropping etc. that and can increase, have a headache the insomnia, losing the appetite, intensity of interest in a lot of things with the weight.
" Internal hormone of postpartum revitalizes the mood caused to change the difference with women, male this kind it reacts more to be enough to cause because of change and psychological preparation of the life style. " Li DaoCheng points out, symptom that men appear is infected and concerned with bad mood certainly too, for instance: Women produce depression on future trouble, the probability that its spouse suffers from depression can be up to 50%.
A few men can present the not normal behavior
DaoCheng Li claim depression light a little than women male a postpartum, and majority limit since, can medicine heal by oneself basically after the adjusting right for some time. But depressed, the sleep is not bad to influence healthy and working efficiency, but appropriate traditional Chinese medicine which eats some easy liver, regulating the flow of vital energy, blood circulation promoting helps to nurse one's health.
" The medicine only plays an auxiliary role, the psychology adjusts more crucially. " Li DaoCheng reminds and says, a few men with more serious symptom, may present some early not normal behaviors of similar psychosis, lose the temper, cry, meet thing want, escape, appear the intersection of family and inclination of violence while being baffled. Most of this kind of patients are introverted, immature, and more fragile, relatives and friends should pay close attention to and help him to dredge bad mood, consider seeking medical advice when symptom is really serious.

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