Man even " Act like a child " ?

Man even " Act like a child " ?
Man even " Act like a child " ,It seems very fresh that but this is really a directory performed in life, only mostly only here " Backstage supporter " Perform. Life is a large stage. In the front desk, the men are acting their own social roles respectively; In the backstage, the role's performance is probably difficult for general audience to detect. People mostly get used to orienting men with the image of front platform, and neglected the backstage image that men actually had. The investigation finds, in different countries, different race, different education background, 1400 families of different age characteristics, different income level, a kind of interesting phenomenon appears: The frequency that the man acts like a child at home will even exceed the wife. Why? It is not obscure not to in fact get on very well. Act like a child, because is fragile. Everyone has fragile side, everyone will need to conciliate. Then, does it meet oneself and conciliate the most appropriate person of the demand who is? It is certainly mother. Then, form a complex in people's subconscious: Mother is the person taking good care of, nourishing, conciliating us unconditionally. Mother has become the target who people act like a child too. But mother after all can't accompany children all one's life, in people psychologically, the same as mother's image, can regard to people that own soul play a role in conciliating in subconscious as mother. This person can not assign anyone of the gender, and often change. For example, the daughter can become mother's psychological mother, the elder sister may become younger sister's psychological mother. The same, the wife may become husband's psychological mother too. In the division of labour of the gender role, women have characteristic of maternal instinct itself, this is one of man's easier reasons to act like a child in front of the woman privately too. Another reason is the social role's difference. The intrepid social image that the man has been acted all the time, is bearing more psychological pressure at the same time. The man has been accepting such education since childhood: You man, man should be firm. In the family, the man is often regarded as weight personages, should hide the wind and take shelter from rain for family with the durable arm too. However, the man not steel drenches irons to cast, they are like woman on the natural natural instinct, there is fragile side, pain of injury of soul need conciliating. Moreover, the man should act the powerhouse in the social role, is a lot of chance that can be led off fewer than the woman. Then after the man get back to home, expose being fragile to one's own " psychological mother " ,In order to obtain the conciliating of soul. Why easier another reason to act like a child is this exactly a man too in front of the woman. Understanding these, the woman will be wise and more farsighted in life.

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