Is the man apt to suffer from melancholia too?

Is the man apt to suffer from melancholia too?
Brief content:Melancholia is often considered as womanlike disease, in fact in actual life, also many men are stranded by the melancholy but often neglected.
In recent years, more and more doctors find, " melancholia " which many men suffer from ,It is not Israel " The sheep type " Symptom appears to shrink back, it is often the amazing " tiger's leopard type of jackals and wolves " that it displays .
Though the national hygiene research institute of U.S.A. points out, women's melancholia person is about male twice, but already medical experts of much spirit have analyzed, generally speaking, women are really apter to suffer from melancholia than men, but much male melancholia patients are unwilling to admit its diseases suffered from, and seek medical advice, this has caused the male patient to count the reduction of the number. Amercian Psychological Association (A P A) in 2005 At the annual meeting, relevant experts point out: About nearly seventy percent of the men are covering up melancholia that they suffer from with other behaviors at present, thus form a kind of hidden melancholia.
The ones that do very well " Tiger's leopard type of jackals and wolves " Melancholia
Shrink back, isolate, lose the interest to work or interpersonal relationships, it is the melancholy symptom of model that we know very well. However, the expert points out: The man's melancholia nowadays, its form of expression is not " sheep type " Shrink back symptom, and present " tiger's leopard type of jackals and wolves " .
Male melancholia and women lie in, the man is very apt to be angry the most bigly and differently, often conceal its melancholy mood with alcohol, drug abuse. Except irascible, get drunk, drug addiction, some people will light to stimulate, go mad, throw things, gamble, come on, behave furiously with workaholic, one point, a kind of behavior that the behavior that these forms are like having man's spirit very much is the melancholy symptom exactly. But it does not know, what is more, a lot of family violence questions are often hung up colluding with melancholia by oneself and family, but a lot of people have not paid attention to.
Xie Gong more than 30 years old was engraved and engaged in artistic design, the emotion was once mauled three years ago, his mood was very low hereafter. He always immerses oneself in work quietly in keeping silent alone, works for over 12 hours every day, called that by the colleague " Risk one's life 3 my darling " . Until one day, while thanking respectfully and engraving getting up and looking after the mirror, just find oneself face has not had any expression yet, very much grimness. He thought about he has not smiled for a long time, this is clear, want to look for the mood exit with the work, invalid at all. He turn to the intersection of psychiatric department and doctor for help recently, take, resist melancholy medicine, come, set the mind at rest uneasiness at.
Would relatively like to pour out one's woes to solve strongly fragrantly by chatting among sisters as to women, the man is not very willing to adjust mood by chatting, even assemble a crowd and chat, the man's topics relate to work, politics, national affairs more. Bad mood has been accumulated long, pile among the bottom of heart, the production " stuffy enamelware pot effect " extremely easily .
So-called " stuffy enamelware pot effect " ,The expert points out so: Mood bored to burn to certain extent in heart, must look for, export, flow. This export may be physiological, it may be psychological too. The physiology is exported, the common one is extremely apt to suffer from diseases such as peptic ulcer, heart brain blood vessel,etc.. As for the psychology, only more obvious melancholia. But the men will all have held on firmly despite extreme adversity, pain, etc. all the time mostly, when really propping up, break out in an extreme way.
There is such a case: Zhang DaYong, 45 years old, the image in unit and family is extremely good at ordinary times, the wife says he is a good husband, the child calls him a good father, he is not only definite view of the family, but also the whole family's American pistachios. But family members of period of time find he does not like having a joke, even does not talk very much, with the intersection of insomnia and phenomenon, think he get bad cold is disapproving also originally.
Until once drinks, magnify brave mood is out of control, call out that asks and says oneself is so tired small, very hard, think, ask window until where want, jump out of the building, bump against the wall with hair, bite own tongue without a break even, commit suicide and incline to be very strong, and then sent to the hospital promptly. Through checking, the doctor lets him live in the spiritual ward. Relatives and the colleagues are all very surprised, one has been the backbone's middle level leader all the time in the unit, Zhang Da that it is the good man at home is brave, how can suddenly so become, everybody is difficult to accept psychologically.
Diagnosed and treated, reel off raw silk from cocoons and shell the callus, the doctor treating has known his cause of disease gradually, "he is too bitter to say, think it is a host and should withstand this slice of it usually. " Has never expected that it is brave while falling into chain of rings of the dispute over obligation and deducting to magnify later, the situation worsened day by day, he is too helpless to dare to seek help, do not want to let family worry, have to be depressed in the heart. , Zhang DaYong meant to take advantage of drinking and relieving the lonliness and grief, it is unexpected but added worrying, broke out like volcano finally on worrying, want to commit suicide without a break.
The man is constrainted by traditional values, is demanded to be firm, strong, shoulder the responsibility of society and family, the achievement orientation is very high, they always hope to act the part of protector. Even a lot of men often present symptoms such as stomachache, insomnia uncomfortable in chest,etc., they always show no concern too, are afraid of being regarded as the weak, coward, diminish the face deeply. Mr. Chen HaiHua serving as the office manager in one commercial bank once suffered from insomnia for one month continuously, he would rather rent last a lot of mere video disc every night, see dawn such as in the East, eyes are hard, just take a nap for a moment, then go to work, it is never willing to face one's own depressed problem, work out a schizophrenia finally.

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