Man's puzzlement in all one's life

Man's puzzlement in all one's life
From the man is from keeping a record of events for that day, begin to accept a kind of education and form a kind of idea gradually: This world is a man's world, men are this master of the world, men are superior. In order to safeguard " The man " Superior dignity, hundreds and thousands of men live when constrained in all sorts of: --The boy has already at children age understood, man's spirit sophisticated appeal burns and does not rely on anyone if it is early, rely on being considered as the coward and sissy, communication and relation of man and others are limited, all sorts of demands of the man's have been denied oneself too. --" have kind " , " it is not afraid of the ground never fear " The ones that fought to the boy praised awarding, and " coward " , " coward " , " bastard " ,etc. vocabulary,become last man additive to commit offenses, destroy oneself while making a desperate move, picking a quarrel. --" a man does not easily shed tears " , " the woman likes snivelling " ,The woman's tears cause people's sympathy, the man's tears repel people, such a woman's culture makes the man not cry, and shy admitting and expressing one's own emotion happily. --In order to keep the man's image and prevail over competition, and vigilance that the man always maintains sharp vigilance in associating, difficult frankly and sincerely, fear and expose one's own shortcoming and weakness, become close and lonely. --Despising to the woman, make the man fear with " woman's flavor " Touch on the child only lightly. In this day and age, girl give name of boy, intrude upon male traditional field day by day bold, the woman's name that the man does not dare to get up, shame is in the traditional field of entering women, to " woman's flavor " Fear,is it that man go backwards to break off leeway and choice virtually, make man have, show one behave affectedly shelf to make tendency drift apart oneself behind deriding others. --It is rigorous that culture forces men to have resolution ability, thinking, the head is clear, make the man's head very difficult to accept those equivocal ones at the same time, the contradiction one thing,it is it mechanical, stiff to become, absolutely, tyrannical, or conceited, or feel self-humiliation, fetch, make changes according to specific conditions candid attitude by one in life while being difficult. --In the modern social civilization, the young man should be challengers and victors of the sexual relations as a rule, " get " Girl many,his " the glamour" Praised by the companions, on the other hand, but social ethics educate him, the demand and chasing women's way of those physiological psychology, are all " shallow " , " derail " Behavior,let's go after acting as he violating a taboo " cheat " At the other women, potential sense of guilt and disdain sense, become to one's own condemnation of heart oneself. The human society has made " The man is superior " All sorts of mythology,last man at life paying by inestimable cost. In order to safeguard " The man " Dignity,the hundreds and thousands of one man, getting more self- in being puzzled and struggle, not ceaseless and fatigued and destroying oneself oneselfing, only the men can all realize social culture to male oppression and alienation, it is " superior " to put down Shelf,go by candid attitude and explore, and it change one's own inner world, could liberate from the old one, destroying life mode, make one's own life calmer, truer, harmoniouser and beautifuller. Transfer it to from colorful valley

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