Man's poise of now: 's marriage psychology that while blindlying date not to check far

Man's poise of now: 's marriage psychology that while blindlying date not to check far
Recently during these days, no the young girl is always asking a question: "Blindly date and come to nothing repeatedly, why do not present man all have poise in this way? " shy;
Ask to her: "Where do not they have poise? " shy;
She answers: "It is over to blindly date, they have never checked voluntarily. " shy;
So no, in several the intersection of blind date and meal of Dutch treatment of taking, drink several the intersection of cup and tea of blind date that oneself pay the bill, the intersection of young girl and people, begin to express pessimistic mood to the man in the world, they firmly believe, this is the times that a gentleman became extinct! shy;
But with this, men are different speaks the diction: "It is only a kind of acquaintance to blindly date, if each acquaintance must be come to pay by us, is this price too expensive? ! " shy;
The man regards blindlying date as a friend-making way, the woman regards blindlying date as the way of choosing spouse. Not meeting the woman especially sending a telegram here, the man does not bother to hold gentlemen; But even if meet the man not very pleasing to the eye, the woman hopes he can look like a gentleman. shy;
In the work, find a very interesting phenomenon: The man, no matter what stratum man it is, to checking, will all have repelling the sense at various degrees. shy;
Poor man, there is no money in the pocket, certainly hope to save the expenses. Rich man, though not unwilling to check, face a woman who will only let him pay the bill, he has misgivingses too: Does she only recognize my money? shy;
Poor man, regard checking as test that is - -Really like her? Really like her in this way? shy;
Rich man, it is a test to woman to regard checking as - -Does she likes my money, or like the person of me? shy;
So, it is unwilling to check to ask how many men there are, how very many really very it is! shy;
While blindlying date, the woman always likes regarding oneself as only deciding people of the incident, the overall situation is held in her hands to the limit, term a speech of hers can all decide win or defeat. Just, frequently, she neglects: The thing of blindlying date this time, it is not that only oneself is chosen others' share, he opposite, it is in fact a psychology like yours too. When you are selecting others, are accepting too that is being selected at the same time. shy;
When finish as blindlying date, that man opposite, there is not the checking for you of initiative enthusiasm. shy;
Then, it is treated that the following day needn't be too overdue. It means, to the future of you and him, he has not really thought it too much. shy;
The man is unwilling to be the woman who she checked, often, are all women who they do not love
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