Sweet lemon psychology

Sweet lemon psychology
Mr. of Mrs. Li get promotion recently next door, Mrs. Li says on every people she endures to hold up one's head at long last, it can be expensive with the. You listen to feel bad naturally, husband the bad smell figure let him mark time in where it is still till now. But you think about it, all right, do Mrs. Li separate, want, complain " repentant to ask husband look for copies of Hou " a period of time well . Husband although difficult and developed, the intersection of salary and bag pay storehouse, get promotion you know economic authority at least, is there a terrific one to then get promotion? In Aesop's Fables, can not eat the fox of the grape, so far as it is sour to say grapes. At this moment if it can only then eat the lemon, it is sure to say the lemon is sweet! No matter " The sour grape " Or " sweet lemon " ,All our heart attempt to see through rational operation while stimulating the other border, come, pacify heart, rise and fall indefinite mood. On psychology, this is so-called " rationalized " Function. Such as " sweet lemon " Psychology, can let people improve the value of one's own current situation while reaching the re-set target, let oneself content with the truth. Feel self-humiliation heart but at this moment, with arrogant to coexist,as protecting by more supercilious self-esteeming. When the psychology is uneven, use these to protect one's own method, can yet be regarded as oneself and adjust the right way too. Just, can adjust drop that expect, can accept lemon although acid, have fact of flavour also, also there can be apt self-respect and confidence. Transfer it to from colorful valley

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