Whether the man is finally one " The things " 's love clinic

Whether the man is finally one " The things " 's love clinic


Have one west door celebrate, have one gold lotus Pan
Wang Qian, columnist, publishing house reads and edits the friendship of Shandong
" the man does not have a good thing " View,mind correctly wrong. Ask first: Say the women of this words, how many men have you gone through? Ten? One hundred? Woman of more those of reading men, the feeling history is hung on the public eyeball, a above the average age for marriage one like Liu Xiaoqing, to shake while being big middle age, in in one's prime Lao Xu have Shuo and Han Han Wang, all situation this, the intersection of they and open man (including a open one and supplementary to come out in memoir once) ,Famous woman or dog packs report to the people, one finger that hand have count, must come over probably, it is potential certainly secretly, basis is not reckoned arbitrarily well. Since the dawn of human civilization, go through the most military lady on day of answer of men, she herself is more terrible than Muzi beautiful MM, she acts as " medicine " The man using it, " dregs of a decoction " after only using Have
In terms of ton transport outward, want, talk military talent have a say most.
Say " the man does not have a good thing " ,It is not in fact denying and despising to the man very either, the hole Confucian scholar said 2,500 years ago: "The gentleman no device. " Literal translation becomes vernacular, " the man is not the things " (indicating that sth. is obvious). Even things are not, distinguish the good things with the bastard? We can say, the hole Confucian scholar holds " the man does not have a good thing " Separating taking the place of the bosom friend of theorists. In more than 2,000 years, separate 100 generations? So contemporary people read Confucius also, elder person too terrible really, one the intersection of judgement and irrefutable more than 20 centuries.
If the man does not have a good thing, how about we try the situation of the inference woman. To tell the truth, this, in the world, have one west door celebrate, will certainly have one gold lotus Pan, have n west door celebrate, correspond to n gold lotus Pan, seldom have a failed situation. Count from macroscopic, the man not within the range of good things follows the woman not within the range of good things, it is probably 1: Quantity of 1. This in the world in fact, men and women difficult, whose less than where go experience. Each one's own each one's good fortune, the own evil person of the evil person rubs, if Your Excellency's man is not the good things, let's show the means of livelihood of each string simply.
Whether the man is evil, what counts is " headmaster "
Wang Lili, Shandong set up one's own business professional the intersection of training school and president
As seeing " the woman, don't say the man does not have good things " At the the topic, I can't help, smile, because hear usual " the the intersection of man and pieces of fine things " . Whenever hear such words, I chime in with similar ideas for man always, beautiful to need, find, good man to need, find too, life to lack beauty, lack, find American eyes. I think so long as the kindhearted conscientious man, under having nothing to do the situation of the principle matter the others, this man's little trouble on one's body can forgive with the love.
Is the man the good things, depend on too what kind of school the woman is in? The man is by the woman before growing up after all - -Mother train, step into marriage, it gives another woman to be to enter another school again grow up, no matter how last graduation grade of half a term is, work as " newly appointed headmaster " (wife) After taking over, need to adjust and train it again. There are sentences in our educational trade: Have not taught the students not good, teacher who will not only teach. So, say whether the man is a piece of " good things " ,Also depend on what kind of woman we are.
Pay close attention to the fact people's heart experiences
Wang WeiXun, associate professor of treatment of research institute of the traditional Chinese medicine of Shandong, Shandong saves worry and speaks to association's director of the hygiene
I heard the first response of this topic to smile, was having a meal at that time, I ask the wife: "You hear woman say the intersection of man and pieces of kind things, what feeling it is? " The intersection of wife and one, " say others to say oneself. "
When we do psychological consultation, it was feeling, not to the fault that was discussed, it is not the reason, when the party says these words, this is her true feeling, she thinks it's so. But when she said these words, having destroyed a piece of interpersonal relationships, the conjugal relation was one kind of the interpersonal relationships. As to most situations, store bad person in in the marriage, store broken marriage relation that shed in only. That is to say, probably two good persons have established very bad marriage relation, and always there are victims in the disharmonious marriage relation.
It is to help to consult guests and rebuild relation of this marriage that teacher wants to be psychological consultation, adjust the heart state, make this kind of contradiction in order, the strong party's oneself, but not go to educate parties, to what fault what is discussed not either, do not force it to accept common moral concept. But instead of discussing the feeling, through discussing the feeling lets the other side give full play to one's own potentiality, in order to find one's own question, it is the most important to solve by oneself.
With " bad man " Keep distance of three meters
Lift small, the news broadcast of Jinan " lifts and shoulders " a column host
I think very good too bad man in this world such as both ends of olive pitiably little, mostly big and bad common people. Meeting the discredited man very much once in a while discreditedly and dying keeps distance of three meters keeping someone at a respectful distance. If can very run into the out and out bad good person, we may not have the courage to take the picture and accept completely only even. Even have the honor to meet the generally acknowledged new good man by chance, really come into, after a distance contact, also will see him on one's body clearly there is much defect. So, everybody is different to the good man's standard and yardstick. Placing oneself in the midst of the towns and villages all over the country of the love, the body is in such a times that can't be examined, everyone can not guarantee it will be the two days after tomorrow the day after tomorrow of tomorrow, so until human society rise and fall countless parameter, whom woman should make most to want, make oneself to be capable and capable, catch and hold more more. So would rather than have good man to blame to bow for look up, type, cause kind woman oneself first, self-confident and beautiful, life can be looked forward to while having countless fresh and bright and beautiful days.


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