Man and woman are different!

Man and woman are different!
In life, we often find such a phenomenon: The man likes monopolizing the remote controller of the TV and varying the channel constantly, but the woman does not mind which channel to watch. Under the pressure, the man drinks and does the confused thing, but the woman eats chocolate or goes window-shopping. The woman criticizes men for men's insensitivity, does not show consideration for, non- talkative, seldom express love, the man will not read signposts while criticizing women, it is pages and pages to make nonsense The man thinks men are the most rational, and the woman thinks women are. Why are modes of thinking of man and woman so different? The Australia leather Sri Lankan Mr. and Mrs. expert who study health language and behaviouristics thinks after a large number of research and investigation, the difference of the heads of men and women has decided the difference of the respect of associating in capacity, life style and two sexes between men and women etc.. Who bad problem it will be fine nobody, just getting different, because of the intersection of men and women and the intersection of brain and difference of working way, presenting a lot of tragedies because of misunderstanding between men and women, they are in books written>, if has known the mode of thinking differing from one another, we needn't have to talk to the other side finally because of mutual misunderstanding again " I am sorry " (used after a verb to indicate the completion of an action). Why the woman likes chatting, the man will " talk to oneself " The male brain is the high area, classify information by area and store, after spending a tense a busy day, classify and file in the male brain information place. The brains of women do not store information by this way, all questions do not stop emerging in the brain, the woman is to say the question out from the only method to get rid of the question in the brain, their purpose is not to really solve the problem, but exclude the question from appearing in the brain. The man regards the telephone as transmitting information to linking up tools of others, but woman regard telephone as tie of connection, finish two week after being false with the intersection of girl friend and degree just, get back to home, the intersection of they and two two hours still can have a chat in phone. The man is demanded to solve the problem and often say: " give it to me! " Or " I will consider solving. " He will not have an expression at all, consider the question quietly, only he found the answer, he is sociable or expresses cheerfully. The man is in the brain " Speak " ,Because this does not need oral ability to express, the woman communicates with oral ability to express. When a man sits and hopes the sky stares flankly, the brain scans to reveal he is " talking to oneself " in the brain ,Woman see will think man to be unhappy, will do the best, speak, find him some thing make with him, the man is often angry because of being interrupted. If when man and man get along, they can sit, have word to be awkward unwittingly even only together for a long time. If the man sits with the woman together quietly, the women will think him not accessible, oppressive and dull, or unwilling to join them. If the man wants to live together peacefully with the woman, they have to speak a bit more. When are man and woman all nervous? There is such a statement, the man that the mood is impatient drinks and infringes others, the woman that the mood is impatient will eat chocolate and go to rush to purchase the things. Under pressure, woman afford to have head, the intersection of man and brain work act rashly. May look like a emotion mine field when man and woman are at the pressure at the same time, everyone wants to control the other side. Man's fearful silence lets the woman feel afraid, the woman begins to cry, the man does not know what to do. For let him feel, feel better some, she tries to encourage him to speak his issue, but this may be the worst thing, he will tell her to get away, let him stay alone. Why did man and woman say good-bye? One living beings of man to provide thing that she need for a woman and prove success of him. Let women appreciate his efforts, if she is satisfied, he will feel satisfied. If she is happy unwittingly, he will feel that fail, thinks because he can not provide enough things for woman. The man often says " I have never let her feel happy " ,This one sufficient reason, to make one man leave, turn another reason of woman that can meet by oneself to by one woman. The woman leaves the man, not because they are unsatisfied with the thing that men offers, because their emotion does not conform. What they wanted is love, romantic and exchanging, and what they need is that the woman tell him what he offer is the best. So one man need patience a bit, under the most situation, need, listen to woman speak but needn't express any opinion only. Why did the man hide their emotion? The modern man has brave and hereditary gene not giving the impression of weakness, so the women will all ask: "Why not talk about their feeling? " When he is angry and unhappy, he will drive on oneself the impasse or stray and think alone. Man's natural instincts are suspicious, love the competition, automatic control, defend making consciousness, it is the lonely one which hides one's own emotion. As to the man, become changeable in mood, is thought to be out of hand. The social environment strengthens the man's behavior, teach them how to answer and " look like a man " ," can't cry " ,And woman's brain has already taken shape in advance should be more open, honest, cooperate, there is sacrifice spirits even more, good at displaying the mechanism of the emotion, it is unnecessary to always control one's own emotion to know. That why meet issue at the same time as man and woman, response to the other side feel puzzled reason each other. Does the woman in why is changeable in mood deal with difficulty? When one sad or very much changeable in mood woman, she might wave the arm and cry for and shout arbitrarily arbitrarily, speak and tell one's own feeling with the adjective rich in the emotion ceaselessly. She needs to be looked after, cared about, someone listens attentively to, but the man will only interrupt her according to one's own thinking, think what she cried for is: "Let's solve my problem. " So, the man does not pacify, but offer suggestions to her. To woman, the manifestation changeable in mood is an exchange way, she can resume and forget quickly, but the man feels that has responsibility on her problem to find the solution, otherwise, will be thought to fail very much oneself, that's why when a woman is changeable in mood, the man will feel bad or angry, want the reason that she cries, the man fears women do not stop once crying. Why does the man dislike the advice? A man needs to feel he has the ability to solve his own problems, if he goes to trouble the good friend, unless he thinks others have a better solution. When a woman tries to let a man tell his feeling and question, he will insist on regarding this as criticism to him, think he has no ability, and in fact, she wants to help him to feel better. To a woman, offer and advise with the suggestion is to make to believe in even more each other ,But not it is no good to see you. Why does the man like changing the television channel ceaselessly? A lot of women hate men to change the television channel ceaselessly, this time, his brain is in sitting at the state that on the rock, he does not often know what each one is saying, he is just looking for the result of each story. While changing the platform, he can forget his question, and seek the solution for the personages in the TV programme. The woman will not always change the channel, they care about story line, experience the relation of personage of the story. It is so too that the man is reading and giving the correct time, the woman should understand as the men read to give the correct time, they can't ignore what you say or remember what you are saying, it is very difficult to talk with man at this moment. The woman likes hearing " I love you " ,Why is the man unwilling to say? Say " I love you " It is not difficult to woman, the woman's brain thinking structure, make her world full of feeling, emotion, exchanges and the language. The woman knows, she is at having a sentimental attachment for stage to fall in love according to her feeling, a man can't totally confirm what is the love, can't distinguish the desire, be crazy about and love, can not only give up this girl in what he knows Perhaps this is love that he imagines. After this kind of relation is maintained for a few years, the man realizes whether oneself is in the love. And the woman knows whether the love exists, so most relations are finished by the woman. A lot of man fear person that promise, stride as one man the line say " love " to her finally When, he even wants to tell everyone in each place.

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