It is not too direct that man's on-the-job field plants

It is not too direct that man's on-the-job field plants
If ask you, you like the person that the frank and outspoken person talked in a roundabout way, you will certainly like the former. Yes, all of us like the frank friend, expect to be frank and outspoken each other in life, even loyal-hearted, but often we fall into the deep heart contradiction again - -Like, keep no secrets from each other each other, hate the other side mouth to have, block, so frank to get scores when very even, see the occasion.
From the psychological viewpoint, it is the most essential part in the human nature to be frank. People generally think children are simple, they have not received the pollution of the common customs, demonstrate everywhere the natural one is true, this is probably so-called " innocent " . It is the true embodiment of the natural instinct that theirs is forthright, the direct feeling to the external things needn't express through the language processing, and such direct expression to can accept, this what is called " children say what they like " .
With the child's forthright lovely difference, not often accepting forthrightly very much of the adult, because the adult is worldly-wise, the adult's expression is considered to be processing or even the mask, the pit of the stomach differs, even say yes and mean no and seem to be the common occurrence. We get rid of hypocritical and malignant person, but kind to regard the intersection of donkey and the intersection of liver and lung as, can not often accept the good result in but good hope, it is the first great pain of the quite a lot of adults heart.
Frank, you say directly, feel comfortable oneself, but don't forget, others are not well if you are too blunt. Especially need to pay attention to the way to speak in the human communication of the on-the-job field, should be good at making sure not to put down people to detest, it will have a good result to do the good thing soon that kind, proposing the suggestions will stress an opportunity, way and method soon.
Most people's good face, especially well-placed person, observe and learn the atmosphere of the scene by experience, the other side's mood, suit expressing one's mind directly, some opinions just give a hint, or lay it aside temporarily, even clear-cut,etc. it should be all right that the other side wakes up realizing by oneself, needn't set up horses and tell level.
The ancient says, " but 60 is pleasing to the ear " ,Include open to instructions having change have, add mind that strive, include, include instead of reveal, moist all things on earth detailed silent realm too. Realize clear these, it will be beneficial to make the good result as to good original intention.
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