Really someone has the final say to give birth to the child

Really someone has the final say to give birth to the child
According to the report a few days ago of the media, to bearing the question on the opinion inconsistently when a pair of married couple over 30 years old in Chongqing got married since 1995, the wife should enjoy life, but the husband is that the three generations pass on a skill from a master to a single disciple. After several years, see the wife not want children yet, the husband changes into vitamin contraceptive into secretly under desperation, made her succeed in becoming pregnant at last. Think of the plot has come to light, wife angry to have an abortion hiding family from very much, also divorce. Husband can think oneself have the right to bear too, insist on, to the court to demand a statement. This husband sues the wife for finally sueing so as to have reasons on bearing, who have the right to determine among couple bear question, produce contradiction, even more really, what is to be done really it's time? Go court fine the intersection of way and those man in Chongqing if the claims want the other side to give birth to the child, the court will not accept. Unless he divorce in claims, the court does not accept. Because the existing relative person without a regulation marriage of law must bear. It is only the fuse that an emotion breaks to bear and bear, the key is to see whether this contradiction makes emotions of both sides break completely, it is possible whether to become reconciled or not, the court regards this as the standard whether they divorce of the judgement. If the husband stills have strong bearing the hope after mediating, and the wife resolutely refuses to bear, can not mediate so, both sides can only choose to divorce. As to this thing, it is not a good method to go to court. If this pair of little couple has the emotion, the husband needn't go to the court to demand the statement. He should clear up the true reason why the wife does not need the child at first, whether she works, studies too busy, or think financial resources not enough, will want the child to be unable to do what one wishes in the near future; Whether her family background is very special, the care that she has not got parents after being born in. Similar knot of soul untie for it. So long as the husband does not act with undue haste, people are things having effection, couple's emotion will melt this pair of contradictions one day in the future. The husband can also ask the wife's confidente to become an old uncle, try to persuade her, with the increase of age, it is more difficult to bear children. Only two people are most clear, it is very difficult for general friend even elder to interrupt in the thing among couple. Certainly, the emotions of both sides have cracks, has already got to the brink of marriage, have looked around for some time, it is wonderful not to need the child temporarily. Meng Kui (lawyer) Do not really know how to ask still when becoming the girl, especially fear to be mother. Thinking of may lose good bodily form, may impede the trick for this little life, I will tremble with fear. So before getting married, I declare " I did not want to give birth to the child " justly and severely ,Although he has not come round at once, has still understood and respected. Without two people of the child's world, really very leisurely, the husband has come to like such carefree day gradually, because of having to work a busy schedule, think even more such life has no burden. Now, but my idea changes silently: The children of colleague, friend have all been already several years old, when all have a get-together, good assistant that these little children still really direct oneself from boredom. As a result, are inclined to " Ding Ke " more and more the husband Simultaneous,like I by child more and more. But, how could not only sweep the husband's excitement, but also can send out the glory of maternal instinct? I am facing toward the husband, but can not open one's mouth. (the intersection of cloud and Pei Shen) Imply for now early, do not want the child or want the child to belong to the normal phenomenon in the metropolis late after marriage. Maybe that woman in Chongqing is fashionable in the location too " Ding Ke " The doctrine person, it's a pity it is incompatible that the tradition of its husband bears idea and her. If really like this, they could not leave, said good-bye as early as possible. I know a couple, the wife is due to weak reasons, in addition, the natural disposition is free and easy, so has not wanted the child, the husband has not imposed either. Can be with the increase of age, the husband often regrets being under the guidance of doctor originally, bear a child. The wife is because of him " Look through the old account " And angry. Two people indifferent relation have now, income exchange more or less, every money of all flower. Be said to be a big thing in the family life while bearing the question, if couple are not unified to this opinion, life can not be happy. I think, can not only depend on one party while bearing the question, though the woman has the freedom to give birth to the child, but freedom of her can't damage right of others, it bears right to be life first kind of the right too. So want the child, or bring the matter up early, had better know how things stand and feel confident in the hearts of both sides before getting married. If of both sides the intersection of idea and conflict very much, get married simply at this point. (grow in yellow Beijing) Bear voluntary good the intersection of unit and one women colleague marry 5 year, deposit the intersection of going abroad and ambition of reading give birth to child never. Last year when she was busy trying to send publicly studying abroad, unexpected the intersection of attitude and better hard place, husband of she, propose not " let you go ing, unless give birth to a child for me first " . The persons of good sense can all find out the husband worries the beautiful and competent wife " Fly " Go abroad. The wife is certainly unwilling, two persons are at swords' points. Because of some accidents later, the wife can not obtain going abroad chance, disturbance of their family was brought to a temporary and put down too, perhaps will embrace the baby soon this year. But everybody say give birth to how can by forcing coercing it will be child " Produce a male heir to continue the family line " Reason can't bearing,be their own distinction free and personal development right too what has been got married both sidesed. It is the suspension on hardships and undertaking that everything takes its time to ripe to add a child for wife, to husband is too unavoidable to divert one's attention, look after wife and children, shift the weight and change the orbit for whole family from then on even more, so should both sides willing and better. So long as does not violate the state policies, any reason force the spouse to grow that is still non- raw The deceit to substitute for another surreptitiously tablet terrible, respect people. " accomplished fact " May not have a good result, one party did not turn over to come curved after all, the cultivation of the child is unfavorable too. (Yuan YanFeng) Women not giving birth to the child are that incomplete woman's human procreation has already had a history of several thousand years, want, be what crime as follows it will be father. I think this husband has the right to bear, and this wife is incompetent. Women not giving birth to the child are an incomplete woman. Some prestigious actress, some successful sportswoman, want, create score, put the same by a matter bearing temporarily, but will be mothers of people later. This wife persists in the ambition, the husband informs it that it is feasible too to get to the court. May well ask these wife, if your parents originally were you even, unwilling to bear, this husband of yours who will have today should talk sense with the wife first, is it obstructed on being over to say (Shi KeQin) This husband inform irrationally that the power to make decision should be in woman's party. It should certainly be decided by women to bear, because although the foetus is couple pair Square crystallization, but that went through the agony and brought him here in this world finally is mother. Speaking from the law, men and women should enjoy bearing right, but physiological course equally Decide
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