From " pinching clan " Say the psychology shows loving care for

From " pinching clan " Say the psychology shows loving care for
Recently, " pinching clan " A word leaps up red on the net. So-called " pinching clan " Refer to some white collar of the big city, because the high pressure of the job at ordinary times, and also deal with various interpersonal relationships, coming off duty has no place to direct oneself from boredom, then " bully " Instant noodles, biscuit in the supermarket,etc., " pinch and break to pieces" psychological pressure thereby .
Obviously, this is a kind of immoral, unbred act. But the expert analyzes that is thought in another perspective: " pinching clan " Having exposed personality defect, psychological weakness of the young white collar, essence is that leading the way off of negative mood has gone wrong, and this kind makes the behavior apt to become the addiction malicously, pinch once and all strengthen once, pinching down continuously is a kind of obsession.
Therefore, I expect the mood of the officers and men at the basic level of the army leads the question off, the officers and men fighting on the first line are like white collar of the big city, face the pressure on much work, life and training too, do they have similar " pinching clan "s Does the same mistake lead the way off? Not long ago, went to the basic unit to witness such a thing, because a soldier " sang in the corridor heartily " Reprimanded for not cultivating, having no discipline sternly in public by the instructor. In fact, this is led off by a kind of mood of a soldier's, but the instructor has not realized this, criticize soldiers from the soldier's training and discipline aspect simply. One that is as to soldier harmless to lead off, should offer treating, should keep a stiff face correct, berate simply, let alone treat as the same and buckle " ideological problem " Cap.
If look at problem from the psychological angle, will find us in the course of leading troops, some things that criticize that limit that emphasize often, it is some of officers and men's that leads the way off. Some unit the intersection of trunk and above well carve characters, row some unit door play getting bad often. I have asked why a new soldier should smoke, he says, irritated in order to go to direct oneself from boredom. Special military camp environment, the psychological pressure of officers and men is not worse than urban white collar, such as the loneliness far away from hometown; Anxiety to the family burden; Worries to that one's own quality is bad; Unjust dissatisfaction,etc. of handling affairs to the specific cadre, will make them produce psychological pressure, if is depressing and too long, the energy of the savings will look for various ways to release. We often hear a hand of some units and show a case, a word initiates such a thing of an accident. The in fact real reason is not in this sentence, hand, but the bad mood of party's long-term accumulation is not led off, break out after there are fuses. Can talk so, " pinching clan " Kick door, smoke,etc. with some officers and men, though behavior lose norm, carry on the leading off oneself of mood when being unconscious after all, want far little much than evil consequence that mood is constrain for a long time, should treat scientifically.
" pinching clan " The phenomenon initiates our more thinking, leaders and organs at all levels should have more and show loving care for the psychology of officers and men, while assigning the task, proposing various requirements, should consider the psychological endurance of officers and men; The mood to be thought of officers and men reflects in dealing with various contradictions and decision; Adopt the effective method to guide to the bad mood that officers and men are constrained for a long time. Should be on the premise of not injuring others, not violating social morality, not violating the regulations of the regulations, it is comparatively appropriate to give to some officers and men " The gas outlet valve " . Some developed countries in the west, in order to let citizens lead discontented mood off, the organization steps on balloon, throwing the mobile phone match away and impacting administrator's head,etc.. Some armies create a lot of to lead the method off while guiding and training in the psychology too nowadays, some make competition of leading the wall off, organizing the Karaoka disc, climbing etc., make the bad mood of officers and men get certain release. Also enough to should finish the intersection of task and bad mood that officers and men produce under course to social change, the intersection of army and policy adjustment method these, science but the effective method is, the mood of strengthening officers and men controls consciousness, become a host of mood; Popularize the knowledge that mood regulates, understand what self-regulation it is; Guarantee officers and men sufficient sleeping, keeping away from the noise, keeping the psychology organizing recreational and sports activities etc. calmly, regularly. An western psychologist points out, if a person meets for a long time hurt and wronged, the holding capacity of its emotion will be exhausted, will present two kinds of situations at this moment: Accumulate, vent the anger at heart on others for many years one; Second, make depression, the emotion will be withered gradually, become interested in nothing. These two points are terrible. " military basic-level construction outline " revised newly proposes clearly, should do the psychology of the officers and men at the basic level well and dredge the work. I think, pay close attention to the mood of officers and men, lead officers and men to lead mood off correctly, prevent the similar " pinching clan " The phenomenon appears in the military camp, do a good job of the meaning that there should be in the question that " outline " implements. Certainly, we either can't think psychological the intersection of problem and generalization nothing abnormal behavior whether psychological problem reflect, thus ignore due ideological education and organize the processing measure.
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